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Death: why do we fear it?

I have lived in many places as I was born in a region, moved to another to go to boarding school, then to another to study, and I did lived and worked in Mexico, Belgium, Spain, England… I was a networker, social queen who loved meeting new people. 

The more people you know, the more you can lose and I have lost a few (too many) good friends. 

It’s been the hardest and the most profound lesson of my life: DEATH!

What’s going on after? Where are we going? What is happening?

When I first lost two very good friends, I went through a dark time. I spent a few years in depression and back in the 90’s, emotional support was not very common, depression was very taboo.

I lost faith in God and had lost the desire to live in joy and enjoy life. I went through a huge crisis.

Few events happened to me and totally changed my perspective on death. In this video, I am sharing them and also reflecting on why some people fear death and what impact this can have on their daily life. 

You can watch the video here or by clicking on the image below:

 

Grieving is part of life. It’s a non avoidable lesson we all have to learn. For some it can be excruciating such as those who lose a family member or a loved one.

Grieving is a process we cannot neglect and often when working with women, there is unresolved grieving work to be completed. 

Suppressed grieving can have very negative health effects. One way to see if the grieving is complete is with the ability to talk about the person they lost. 

I recently worked with a woman who had no apparent problems in her life. She had a great family, a fantastic job, a lovely husband and a beautiful body. She was carrying some pain but didn’t really know where from. 

We worked on the subconscious and with a technique I use to release negative emotions from the past, we went 3 lives ago. From there, she could feel the pain and sadness of losing the love of her life. And that pain was so deep, she carried it and was still affected by it in this life.

This lady wouldn’t have believed me if I had told her, she could be carrying this from a past life. But when we worked together, she naturally went there and was a little shocked but in trusting the process, she was able to complete the grief and release the stuck emotions.

That was mind blowing for her and a great reminder for me that life is magical and there is so much we don’t know about it. 

It is so reassuring for me to believe, this is just a life and I get to experience many (like in a video game).

I wanted to start a conversation with this topic we are all facing currently.

I look forward to reading your comments and to continuing this conversation.

We have a private community for women where we dive into those topics on a deeper level and I’d like to invite you to join if you have not yet: Click here to Join the She F’heals tribe!

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