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If you don't like what you see, change it from within.

How to own our stories?

I am really good at making my life really hard. When finally I had it ‘sorted’ and everything was getting easier, I managed to find a way to make it hard for me.

But why would I make my life harder?

If my life is hard, it allows me (unconsciously) to remain busy and it allows me to avoid slowing down. As a result, I do get tired, frustrated and I do get annoyed and annoying at my partner.

 Check my story here so you get what I mean in this video.

Today’s video has a double purpose:

  •  Sharing my story and breakthrough with you because I’m pretty sure you can relate to that
  • Being seen in such an imperfect set up with such an imperfect and real story

 If I shift the situation around by taking responsibility for everything, I can shift it and change the outcome.

The puppy is here and so so so cute, and I now can make sure I have some “ME time” while she walks me everyday. I also can use that time to reflect, meditate, stretch and do some exercise even.  

I certainly want to make sure I remember that everything I see in others is just ME and by owning the reflection, I can change this mirror in a window of opportunity for growth.

 The tips I’ve shared were:

  1. Remember that everything you see in others is YOU and just YOU
  2. Love yourself, your ‘imperfections’ and feel this massive compassion for yourself
  3. Apologise and be vulnerable about it all and own your stories

 I hope your weekend is a fabulous one and hope you get more rest than me. I wish you a fantastic week ahead and will be in touch soon!

 Can you relate to my story? Do you have examples on how you are making it harder for yourself in life? Or maybe examples on how you get annoy about someone and if so, where can you find this in you? If so, please share in the comments!

I hope this video will help in reaching your goals.

 Reward yourself for taking the time to connect with yourself.

 Remember that everything starts from within and the shortcut to save the planet is to LOVE YOURSELF!

 Thank you so much for reading, watching & I will be in touch soon!

Bisous x

 

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